Remembering Sister Mary (Mary Bernard) Laxague (1931 – 2022)

Sister Mary Laxague died on August 11, 2022 at age 90. She served as a Sister of Notre Dame de Namur for 71 years.

In the late 1940s, the small mining town of Ely, Nevada, had no Catholic schools, and it was only because of a high school acquaintance that young Mary Laxague even heard of the College of Notre Dame (CND) in Belmont, California. She decided to attend the college based on that recommendation and was in the last class to receive associate's degrees in 1951. Mary was quite taken with the Sisters who taught at the College. At that time, they were celebrating the  100th anniversary of their arrival in California, and Ralston Hall was being readied for the celebration. "It was amazing," Sister Mary (Mary Bernard) recalls. "What struck me was the sight of the Sisters, in their blue aprons, cleaning the chandeliers in Ralston Hall. A professor was not above doing that kind of work."

Mary entered the Sisters of Notre Dame de Namur later in 1951, and through her early ministries she experienced the changes that occurred, not only in the Church through Vatican Council II, but in American society as well. She earned her master's in business education at San Jose State in 1965, and after 14 years of teaching in Notre Dame elementary and high schools in Watsonville, Marysville, and Seattle, she became a professor at the Business College at CND (now NDNU). Six years into her tenure, she became Dean of Students for the College, a job she truly loved.

Sister Mary Laxague, SNDdeN, with students.

In the 1990s, after more than 30 years in teaching and administration at the College, she became a member of the Leadership Team for the California Province. A major part of her responsibility as a team member was to oversee the construction of the Province Center in Belmont, where she lived for nearly twenty years. For years, she worked with the Province Finance Office and also served on the Board of Trustees for Notre Dame de Namur University.

Former NDNU colleagues Kris Zavoli, George Mayer and Sister Mary Laxague.

At the news of Sister Mary's passing, NDNU President Dr. Beth Martin shared the following:

"Mary lived our Hallmarks and I am deeply grateful for all her countless contributions to NDNU over the many decades. Many of us have fond memories of her and marveled at her ability to make a difference in people’s lives. You could always find her walking around the campus … engaging with faculty, students and the surrounding community."

Sister Mary Laxague during the COVID-19 pandemic in 2020.

Sister Mary took the time to keep healthy and flexible. She practiced yoga for 20 years, and walked every day around the NDNU campus, sometimes on the street that bears her name–Laxague Drive! An anonymous donor made a gift to the University in her name because Sister Mary "had made a difference in that person's life." She never knew who that person is, or was, and respected the donor's request for privacy. Perhaps that donor saw in Sister Mary what Mary herself saw in those Sisters of Notre Dame de Namur working on the chandeliers in Ralston Hall more than 70 years ago: she was a professor, a Sister, not above doing any kind of work, willing to do whatever it took to make a difference.

A Mass will be celebrated for Sister Mary on Monday, September 19, 2022 at 10:30 a.m. at Cunningham Chapel on the Notre Dame de Namur University Campus. Burial will take place at 2:00 p.m. at Holy Cross Cemetery in Colma.

Sister Mary's Ministries

1954-55 Moreland Notre Dame School, Watsonville, Calif. (Teacher, 6th Grade)
1955-57 Notre Dame High School, Marysville, Calif. (Teacher)
1957-62 Mora High School, Watsonville, Calif (Teacher)
1962-67 Blanchet High School, Seattle, Wash. (Teacher)
1967-73 College of Notre Dame, Belmont, Calif. (Faculty, College of Business)
1973-86 College of Notre Dame, Belmont, Calif. (Dean of Students)
1987-99 Notre Dame de Namur University, Belmont, Calif (Faculty)
1999-2003 SNDdeN Province Center, Saratoga, Calif. (Province Leadership)
2003-Present SNDdeN Province Center, Belmont, Calif. (Volunteer Services)


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Comments

  1. I am saddened to hear of sister Laxegue's passing. She was my favorite teacher, with whom I had several classes and wonderful experiences. She truly cared about students and CND. And while my heart is heavy right now, I thank God that I knew such a beautiful individual. The fond memories will always bring smiles to my face.

  2. Although small in stature and humble by nature, Sister Mary had a giant presence, especially among students. She laughed with us, prayed for us, and guided us, if not by a few words at a quiet moment then through her understanding and acceptance and witnessing that emboldened.

  3. I met Sister Mary when she was Dean of Students in 1983. She evaluated my high school transcript and gave me higher scores for honors classes, which brought my gpa up for my admission to the college. I always remember her taking the time with me.

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